
So, my question is, will I always lose two points, no matter what I do, or should I first raise my relation with her even more, until she'll accept me without that? after dedicating a tournament victory to her, I gained 4 relation and now she's a bit more friendly with her response, but I still lose two points. But when I do so, I lose two relation points with her, probably because of her personality type? At first, at relation 0, she was very cold to me and said something along the lines of "if you will excuse me".

However, while I can already visit her privately, I still have to profess ma admiration, so the entire courting thing really can get started. I have a good relationship with the Count, so he mentioned his daughter himself, meaning I am allowed to court her. I am currently trying to marry a maiden with a combative/tomboyish personality, Lady Sonadel, daughter of Count Grainwad. I understand the different personalities and all that, but there are a few finer things that I couldn't figure out, so I hope you'll be able to help me with this. I tried searching for more information about the maidens and courting, but the information is apparently very limited.
